Now that many meetings have quickly gone virtual, there’s no lack of advice about how to run them productively and efficiently. But there’s an emotionally intelligent step that can easily be missed.

Have you checked in with your teammates to ask how they’re feeling? Since you can’t check in with your team in-person or read body language, it’s important to ask.

Brené Brown, the vulnerability researcher and professor whose TED Talk is one of the most-viewed in the world, has a masterful way to ask this question so people will give an honest answer.